If we take life\u2019s events at face value, assume that they are our destiny and agonize over their presence, then we will have succumbed to a future that we no longer control. If, however, we adopt the attitude that life\u2019s events are merely occurrences, that they deserve no more importance than what we ascribe to them, then we can become the master and life becomes our servant. Thus, self-realization is not just the identification of our most inner needs and expectations but rather their reflection in the way we feel about ourselves and in how we choose to approach life. Essentially, our Self <\/i>becomes actualized<\/i> through our thoughts, our self-beliefs and our actions, all of which are based upon a passionate Purpose-driven attitude.<\/p>\n
We must recognize that we are not simply a Self<\/i>, some amorphous thing that sits on a shelf in a dark corner of the room, complete in its own essence. Our Self<\/i> is a living, breathing, learning, acting, doing, thinking human being. Our Self<\/i> moves through life, facing continuous stimulation that requires continuous responses. It survives and prospers by coming out of the dark, out of its basic shell, and then charging into the brightness of each day, participating with great Purpose and Vision. The choice we must make is whether to let our Self<\/i> turn into a Shawish-type tired, selfish clod with grievances that the world is not making us happy,<\/i> <\/i>or a Self<\/i>\u00a0 that passionately realizes what it is, what it wants and what it is going to do. Taking the higher road ultimately leads us to our Higher<\/i> Self,<\/i> where we never have to regret the choices that we made – because they were the choices we meant to make.<\/p>\nShare this:<\/h3>